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How many times have you hesitated, second-guessed yourself, or silenced your own voice? How often have you let fear or self-doubt keep you from stepping into the life you were meant to live?

Doubt is a heavy chain, one that has been conditioned into many of us through years of external expectations, past failures, and the fear of judgment. It whispers in our ears, telling us that we are not enough, not ready, not worthy. But here’s the truth: you are already powerful beyond measure. You don’t need permission to own your brilliance, your dreams, or your truth. The only permission you need is your own.

Today, I invite you to break free from self-doubt and start owning your power. This is your time to step forward, to stand tall, and to embrace the incredible force that already exists within you.

5 Steps to Stop Doubting Yourself & Start Owning Your Power

1. Rewrite the Story You Tell Yourself Self-doubt often comes from the stories we repeat in our minds. “I’m not good enough,” “I don’t have what it takes,” “What if I fail?” These are not facts, they are just narratives we’ve accepted. Today, I invite you to rewrite them. Instead of “I’m not ready,” say, “I am growing into my greatness.” Instead of “What if I fail?” say, “Every step forward is a victory.” Change your story, and you will change your life.

2. Collect the Evidence of Your Strength Doubt thrives in the absence of evidence. But when you take a moment to reflect, you will see the proof of your resilience everywhere. Think back to every time you overcame a challenge, every time you surprised yourself with your strength, every time you refused to give up. Write these moments down. Your past victories are the proof that you are capable, resourceful, and unstoppable.

3. Take Aligned Action, Even if it Scares You Confidence is not something you wait for; it’s something you build through action. Fear will tell you to wait until you feel ready, but readiness comes from doing. Whether it’s speaking up, setting boundaries, or finally going after what you want. Take one small step today. Action dissolves doubt and turns fear into fuel.

4. Stop Seeking External Validation How many times have you hesitated because you were waiting for someone else’s approval? Your power doesn’t come from external validation, it comes from within. The more you look for others to affirm your worth, the more you give them control over your life. Own your choices, trust your intuition, and know that you are the authority of your own life.

5. Embody the Version of You Who is Already Free Who would you be without self-doubt? How would you move, speak, and show up in the world if you fully trusted yourself? Start embodying that version of you today. Walk with confidence, speak with certainty, and act as if you already own your power because the truth is, you do.

Your Time is Now

You are not here to play small. You are here to take up space, to shine unapologetically, and to create the life you were born for. Every time you choose self-trust over doubt, every time you own your voice, and every time you take a step forward despite the fear, you reclaim your power.

You are stronger than you know. And the moment you decide to believe in yourself fully, everything will change.

Are you ready?

Much love,

Nazanin Bigdeli

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